Privacy, Not Gay Marriage

“Stirring up a gay-marriage panic serves the interests of activists who support a federal constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage. But decisions made in a panic are seldom wise. With its federalist structure, the United States is uniquely positioned to settle gay marriage the right way: at the state level.”

From The Supreme Court Ruled for Privacy—Not for Gay Marriage. It’s worth a read.

Incidentally, Andrew Sullivan, too, is floating a balloon about a similar idea — in this case, a hypothetical compromise gay marriage amendment that would leave the decision up to states and not impose one state’s recognition of gay marriage on other states.

Washington Times and “‘Marriage'”

I’m not a big fan of the Washington Times as it is, but what really annoys me is that whenever the paper carries an article about gay marriage, it puts the word “marriage” in quotation marks, as it does here:

A month after the Supreme Court decision legalizing sodomy and Canada’s recognition of same-sex “marriage,” analysts say an almost casual acceptance of homosexuality pervades the media.

Okay — I might, might be inclined to agree with this policy, to a point. It acknowledges that gay marriage in the United States is currently just hypothetical. But the paper also uses quotation marks to refer to legal Canadian marriages. That’s just obnoxious. It’s implicitly saying, “Canada might have made gay marriage legal, but we still think it’s a ridiculous idea.”

Particularly galling and insulting is the paper’s reference to “the ‘marriage’ of Deb Price and Joyce Murdoch in Toronto last month.” (Price and Murdoch, incidentally, are the co-authors of the book that Ralph Nader sent me.)

Price and Murdoch don’t have a “marriage.” They have a marriage. They’re legally married. Just because the Washington Times doesn’t like it doesn’t make it any less legal. Nice try though.

What’s also annoying — no, just plain awkward — is the paper’s refusal to use the word “gay” unless it’s embedded in a quotation. I’m sorry — it may not be technically incorrect, but it’s really weird to refer to “Will & Grace” as NBC’s “homosexual-themed sitcom ‘Will & Grace.'”

They really need to lighten up at that paper.

Full Faith and Credit

“In other words, the Supreme Court might never be forced to declare gay marriage a constitutional right under the due process reasoning of Lawrence. Rather, the majority justices can sit back, let momentum from their decision take hold in the states, and then use a relatively obscure passage of the Constitution to nudge the ball across the line.”

– from A More Perfect Union: Will Lawrence Lead to Gay Marriage?
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