The Prop 8 Ruling

I’ve read the Prop 8 ruling, which was of course announced this afternoon.

And you know what? I found it boring.

This is not the first court to rule that a ban on marriage for same-sex couples violates the Constitution. Courts in Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Hawaii, and, of course, California, have issued similar rulings before, and judges in New York and New Jersey have put forth the same arguments in dissenting opinions. The arguments for marriage equality have been put forth over and over again. How many different ways are there of stating the obvious?

And that is why the arguments are boring — because they’re so obvious. Of course we deserve the right to marry. How can anyone not understand this?

And yet a large but steadily shrinking portion of the country doesn’t seem to get it. Or just plain refuses to.

It’s not really about marriage. It’s about thinking that gay people are just not as good as straight people.

To quote Judge Walker:

In the absence of a rational basis, what remains of proponents’ case is an inference, amply supported by evidence in the record, that Proposition 8 was premised on the belief that same-sex couples simply are not as good as opposite-sex couples.

Not everyone who opposes marriage equality is a gay-hater. Not all of them spew out lies like Maggie Gallagher, who must be a really unhappy and unloved person to spend so much time trying to prevent other people from being happy.

Many people who oppose marriage equality say they have no problem with gay people. They may even say they like gay people. They may even say they like me. They may have gay friends or gay workers and think that they’re perfectly nice people.

Hey, they have such great fashion sense and they’re so entertaining to watch! But, you know, they don’t deserve the same rights that we have. Because, I like them and all, but gay couples are still not as good as real couples. Two men or two women together just aren’t as real or good as a man and woman’s relationship.

I like gay people, but I sure hope my son or daughter doesn’t turn out to be one!

They don’t realize that this doesn’t make any sense, and that it is in fact contradictory. If you oppose marriage equality, then you oppose gay people. If you think, even in a small part of your brain, that gay people are not as good as straight people, then you oppose gay people.

Don’t patronize me. If you don’t think I deserve equal rights, then you have no respect for me, and you have no respect for gay people. Don’t pretend that you do. I don’t want to be friends with you.

So yes, this decision was boring. Nothing new here. Just the same old, crystal clear, logical, obvious arguments.

Even if this case gets to the Supreme Court and we lose — come on, Anthony Kennedy, we’re counting on you! — Judge Walker’s decision will still be right. People need to read it, so they can understand the obvious, self-evident truths.

Stating the obvious is not always interesting. But it is often necessary.

Doe v. Reed

The Supreme Court issued a fascinating decision this morning in connection with the marriage equality movement. It pits Justice Scalia against the anti-gay folks, and I’m not totally sure which side I agree with here.

Last year, in Washington State, the governor signed a same-sex domestic partnership bill into law. In response, a group called Protect Marriage Washington tried to get an initiative onto the ballot to repeal the law. They managed to get enough signatures to do so. In response to that, a coalition of groups sued under the state’s Public Records Act to learn the names of everyone who signed the petition.

Protect Marriage Washington argued that this would be a violation of the First Amendment rights of everyone who signed the petition, because it would have a chilling effect on speech. They argued that if you can’t sign a petition without staying anonymous, this will discourage people from signing petitions and thereby their free speech rights will be curtailed. They also argued that in this particular instance, the signers of the petition were subject to threats from gay-rights people.

This morning, the Court, in Doe v. Reed, ruled that there is no blanket right to anonymity if you sign a petition. But they refrained from ruling on the particular circumstances of this case; they kicked back to the lower court the issue of whether there’s a legitimate threat against the petition signers that would necessitate keeping their identities secret.

Chief Justice Roberts wrote the majority opinion, which was 6-3, although the lineup is a little splintered. Only Justice Thomas dissented completely, arguing that the First Amendment in all cases protects the anonymity of petition signers.

Scalia’s concurrence is the most interesting, though. He argues that there is no protection of anonymity regardless of whether there are threats; he examines American history and finds that there is not even a First Amendment right to a secret ballot in an ordinary election, because until the late 19th century, most states didn’t have secret ballots, and the secret ballot was instituted not because of First Amendment concerns, but in order to minimize election fraud.

The highlight of his concurrence is at the end:

There are laws against threats and intimidation; and harsh criticism, short of unlawful action, is a price our people have traditionally been willing to pay for self-governance. Requiring people to stand up in public for their political acts fosters civic courage, without which democracy is doomed. For my part, I do not look forward to a society which, thanks to the Supreme Court, campaigns anonymously… and even exercises the direct democracy of initiative and referendum hidden from public scrutiny and protected from the accountability of criticism. This does not resemble the Home of the Brave.

He’s basically saying to the anti-equality people: don’t be such wimps. Have the courage to argue your opinions in public.

And I kind of respect that.

I’m still not sure if I agree whether petition signers should have the right to their anonymity. I think I’d say, no, except in certain circumstances, such as someone signing a petition for racial equality in the South during the 1960s, in a time and place where there was a history and demonstrated threat of racial violence.

And I don’t like the idea that you can sign a petition to take away someone’s rights and then turn around and falsely complain that you’re subject to the threat of violence for doing so.

Finally, it’s interesting to read this decision alongside the Court’s January ruling that the Prop 8 trial in California shouldn’t be broadcast because it could cause “irreparable harm” to the anti-equality side’s witnesses.

It’s always funny to me that lots of anti-gay people make fun of gay men for being sissies and yet cower in fear of physical harm from them.

Prothalamia

I sing with a gay men’s chorus called the Empire City Men’s Chorus, and I really should plug our upcoming spring concerts, where we’ll be premiering a newly-commissioned work about marriage equality.

The name of the piece, Prothalamia, translates as “songs in celebration of marriage.” In concept it’s a bit subversive: its structure mirrors the Latin mass (its five movements are called Kyrie, Gloria, Credo, Sanctus, Agnus Dei), but the texts are secular, by Walt Whitman, Gertrude Stein, the ancient Roman writer Martial, and others. The music, by Charles Norman Mason and Dorothy Hindman (who are themselves married), is very modern and complex and quite beautiful.

We’re doing two concerts:

Sunday, May 23, 2010, 3:00 pm
Riverside Church
490 Riverside Drive, New York, NY

Tuesday, May 25, 2010, 8:00 pm
Church of St. Ann & The Holy Trinity
157 Montague St., Brooklyn, NY 11201

You can buy tickets online or at the door.