The Associated Press has issued its new style guidelines on LGBT-related terms. (Is “LGBT” in there?)
The GLAAD page above also includes links to the style guidelines followed by the New York Times and Washington Post and a history of the AP’s LGBT stylebook updates.
One thing that strikes me is a reference to “the pejorative connotations of words like ‘homosexual.'” That’s true, isn’t it? It can seem pejorative. But it’s weird that it can. After all, the word isn’t a slur – it means exactly what it says: “same-sexual.” I guess what makes it sound off-putting is the clinical nature of it. But it all seems arbitrary. “Fag” is right out, unless you’re a gay person talking about another gay person; “queer,” formerly pejorative, has been reclaimed; “gay” is the preferred term, unless it’s being spoken by a middle-schooler as a put-down (“That’s so gay!”).
I think I’ll just go by “Jeff.”
(N.B.: Almost as arbitrary, and yet also true, is the fact that referring to someone as “Jewish” is fine whereas referring to someone as “a Jew” comes off as awkward and possibly quasi-offensive.)

